A Tribute to a Friend
Life gets away from us. Recently, I poignantly realized this. A long-time friend moved to heaven suddenly. We hadn't talked in a long time, yet when I heard the news, tears and memories flooded my mind of days gone by.
Why don’t we keep in touch? This question can be answered in several ways. As we grow up, situations change. We move. We develop new relationships. Tragedies happen that mar our memory and our actions. We don’t forget about our friends, but many things get in the way or obscure our vision to see what we can do to stay in touch.
I know high school is not a memorable time for some, but I must say, for me, it was. That is memorable. It helped that I was friendly, but my friend girls were the best. Between basketball, Beta Club, the school annual, and more, we loved each other. Most of us stayed in touch after high school for a while into college. But life got in the way.
I know this is not uncommon. It happens to most of us, but I hope today, as I share some memories and pay tribute to a friend, it helps you to reach out to your friends. Next to Jesus and family, friends may be the most valuable assets on earth.
These qualities in a friend can leave an indelible mark on our lives.
Friends offer fun, faith, and friendship. A true friend wants you to be a part of their life, whether in sports, watching a movie, or going to church. Why, because they need friendship too.
They authentically offer themselves to others. In conversations, they offer the truth, even though it may hurt. They want you to do the same for them. Friends don’t ‘beat around the bush’ but ‘shoot straight from the hip.’ Why, because they care.
Friends are there when times are tough, really tough. When something goes wrong, you know who to call. No hesitation. You know you can just show up and they will listen. Why, because they love.
This tribute is for Jan Turner Manno. My high school buddy who filled all those qualities above and so much more. You were one of the first girls who welcomed me to the new school. We met while practicing basketball the summer of our Sophomore year. Some of my favorite memories are walking the halls of Brandon High School, winning games, and sharing our faith in the halls of the school.
When tragedy struck my family, you were the first one I went to. You welcomed me and let me cry on your shoulder. Your family is amazing, filled with the same love. Your momma was one of a kind. You exhibited her love and laughter in your person, causing all those who were around you to feel the warmth of true friendship.
You are a beautiful soul, and although you now have a new address, you are united with your family and many friends before you. If I could have said anything to you before you left, it would be much, but two things for sure are in my heart. “Thank you for being you!” and “I love you and look forward to seeing you soon.”
Thank you for watching, listening, and reading about friendship and my friend. I hope and pray you will remember those who are dear to you. Reach out and let them know you still care!
Until next time, remember, the heart of the matter is the matter of the heart.
Dr. Michele Morgan
August 31, 2025
